Gang Stalking – Off Topic – PostaDay 2011 – Why is it so hard to forgive?

I read the comments on the above topic. I found that most of the comments came from people who have never been in a situation to forgive. They were all so smug with their answers.

It is hard to forgive someone because of all the hurt the person, or persons, has caused you. As I’ve started in my earlier posts, there are some people I will never forgive. When all your life you’ve trusted someone and he f–ks with your trust, there’s no way that you can ever forgive him. For one, it makes the person  mistrustful of other people. It will be hard for that person to fully ever trust anyone again. And that alone is enough to not forgive someone. The fact that they made you distrust others, where once you trusted without thought, you now have to question every one’s motives who comes into your life.  Can I trust this person?  Will he screw with my life?  Can I be open with him and tell him what I really think?  Or do I have to watch everything I say and do?  The ability to trust others is no longer in you.  You want to trust and forgive, but it’s hard.  You’ve been made into a different person.

Look at Maria Shriver.  Do you think she’ll ever be able to trust a man again, or anyone else for that matters?  She might say she forgives, but deep down in her core, she will never forgive him for making her distrust others.  She trusted this man to be there for her and be her partner for life.  And  now, when her  children are old enough to go their way, she has to reconsider what this life she led was all about.  It was a  lie!  She must feel like a complete fool.  She’ll question herself about her judgment and why didn’t she see it coming? Was she naïve?  She thought he had her back, but the only thing he cared about was his own back.  She’s not the same woman anymore.  And she will never be again.  Someone can forgive, but the memory of the deceit will always stick around haunting him.

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